I saw from statistics that someone had found his or her way (probably still his) to my blog by searching the answer to question if smoking, chewing miraa and porn can affect sex. I wanted to write an answer to this. I'm no doctor, but I know that it does. Basically everything in the world, not only tobacco, ganja, miraa, alcohol or drugs, can become addictive. For example if you eat sweets a lot, then try to be without them. Or when you watch porn every day, then try to be without it. You can go to absurd with it. When you are really used to having threesomes then try to have only one girl. You find that you are not satisfied. Same way starts at one moment a sex to feel unsatisfying without something that you are used to have either before or during sex. When you hunt your girls in a danceclubs and before ending up in home in bed with her, you drink alcohol in this club, then when you try to have sex without having few drinks before that, you at some point may find that either you don't get orgasm or even just getting erection may be hard. When you watch porn a lot and probably then also masturbate, then it gets much harder to get orgasm without porn. And like with anything addictive, things tend to get worse. Hell, even just having sex too often, people get so used to that, that it finally don't excite anymore (at least without something new... something crazy). Addiction is always ends up with unsatisfying result without getting even more that to what you are addicted. But there are limits to everything. But even when you don't get satisfaction, you still get horny. This may evolve into erotomania. Erotomaniacs are simply put people who are constantly horny but it gets harder and harder to actually get satisfaction from sex and everything connected to that. And without satisfaction we get stressed, stress gets deeper and deeper depression. So anyway... people try not to get used to anything. It doesn't mean that you never can watch porn or drink before sex, etc, but don't do it like that all the time. Hold your sexlife fresh and without associations and routine. Everything can be done without getting addicted. Same applies actually everything in the life. Try to live a life so that every day is different than the other. Hold pauses between everything you do. And still, I have to say that effect of alcohol, tobaco, miraa, ganja and drugs that in common sense are regarded as creating addiction are worse than anything else. These all have substances in them that in one or other way affect nerve system directly and strongly. Most of these create apathy, limpness, emotional unstability and many other things that affect both sex and generally your life in a not good way.
But if you already feel that something has affected your sex life, and you don't get satisfaction without that booster, then don't worry. Only thing you have to do is not to give in to the lure. Take a break from both this booster and sex. Go to vaccation, hike and do something active and something that shows you that there are new days in life. I know that being without these things, especially absent of sex, may create bad feeling at first, but it only shows that you already were adicted. Yesterday I saw a guy in supermarket with a T-shirt where was written: "I quit smoking, drinking alcohol and having sex... It was worst fifteen minutes of my life". Anyway, even when you feel urge to get back to the things that you like so much then gather your strength and still hold a pause. This pause must be at least few months to have refreshing momentum.
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